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Urukundo rufatwa nk’inkingi y’ibyishimo by’abantu, kandi ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko umubano w’urukundo ushobora guteza imbere ubuzima bw’umubiri n’ubw’umwuka. Inyigo zitandukanye, zirimo izakozwe na CDC na Harvard Study of Adult Development, zemeza ko imibanire myiza igira uruhare runini mu munezero n’umutekano w’umuntu kurusha ubutunzi cyangwa intsinzi mu kazi.
Nubwo bimeze bityo, si ngombwa ko umuntu wese agira umukunzi mu bihe byose. Hari igihe umuntu aba akwiye kubanza kwiyubaka, kwimenya no gukunda ubuzima afite. Abashakashatsi nka Dr. Bella DePaulo bagaragaza ko umuntu ashobora kubaho anezerewe kandi yujuje inshingano ze n’iyo yaba adafite umukunzi.
Bibiliya na yo yerekana ko umubano w’urukundo ari umugisha, ariko ikemera ko hari abahitamo kubaho batarongoye bitewe n’inshingano cyangwa umuhamagaro wihariye. Ni yo mpamvu inama itangwa ari iyo kwisuzuma neza, kumenya impamvu ishaka umukunzi, no kubanza kwihesha agaciro imbere y’Imana.
Umwanzuro ni uko kugira umukunzi atari byo byuzuza umuntu, ahubwo ari impano yuzuzanya n’umutima witeguye, wubakiye ku Mana no ku kuri. Urukundo nyakuri rusaba igihe, kwitegura, no kuyoborwa n’Imana, yaba umuntu ari mu rukundo cyangwa ari wenyine.
Esther Uwiduhaye
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July 1, 2025
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4 min